The amazing Renelle Assmus. Renelle is mom to EllaRose (10), CJ (8) and Tristin (6). Renelle's first two deliveries were vaginal although she had toxemia and preeclampsia in both pregnancies. Her son CJ had shoulder dystocia and his delivery was a bit traumatic. Renelle said that nurses jumped on her to try to push him out and they ended up breaking his clavicle in the process. Because of this she was encouraged to have a cesarean with her third. While she found her cesarean to be very difficult emotionally, in not feeling like she had actually given birth to her child, she found that physically, the healing was easier than with her vaginally deliveries.