The amazing Danielle Kober with her son Dade (4) and daughter Beatrice (9 mo). Danielle had relatively healthy pregnancies but all in all, her experiences weren't what she'd hoped for. She didn't feel she was properly cared for during her first delivery nor that she was told what was going on or able to be an active part of her care. She was able to deliver Dade vaginally but suffered a third-degree tear that still causes issues with pain and incontinence today. She was advised not to attempt another vaginal delivery with Beatrice's pregnancy and instead chose to have a cesarean. While she sometimes questions that decision, her recovery was so much easier than her first. Danielle had difficulty breastfeeding Dade and he preferred bottles over breast, but she has had a much more successful nursing relationship with Beatrice.