The adorable Amanda Frazier with her boys, Oliver (4) and Benjamin (11 months). Amanda got pregnant with Oliver when she was 19 and wasn't very well educated or empowered with her birth. After being induced and having her membranes ruptured, her body was not ready for birth and she ended up having a cesarean. Her incision came unglued and had to heal open, which caused Amanda a lot of emotional distress. She was also told that her uterus had been damaged during her surgery and that she shouldn't have any other children. Amanda trusted her body despite the doctors' advice and eventually got pregnant with Ben. She had to be very closely monitored during her pregnancy and was required to have weekly ultrasounds and a repeat cesarean. Ben was born very healthy and it was ultimately determined that Amanda does NOT have the uterine issues they assumed.